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THE HOGANSVILLE HOME NEWS
USPS 620-040
JOHN KUYKEYqDALL
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LAURIE LL-,~I'~
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Millard B. Grimes. President
Phone (7(10) 846-3188. Fax (706) 846-2206
P O. Box 426
t togansville, Georgia 30230
The Party Season Is
Here: Don't Drink
About this time every
year millions of American
teenagers are going to their
high school prom, going on a
senior class trip, graduating
from high school or possibly
all three. This is a time of
year when teenagers start
getting excited about the
summer and maybe even a
little anxious about the life
ahead of them.
For many of these occa-
sions alcohol is often preva-
lent, whether it's pre- or post-
graduation parties, trips to
warm sunny beaches or stay-
ing in hotels after the big
dance. Unfortunately the
alcohol adds more than just
hangovers to the mix.
During a conversation
recently with Harris County
Sheriff Mike Jolley, we dis-
cussed the number of
teenagers involved in traffic
accidents and how many
times drugs or alcohol may
have played a part in the acci-
dent.
Jolley explained that a
number of teens had been
involved in parties in Harris
County recently where alco-
hol was involved. He also
talked about the dangers of
drinking and driving.
The same concerns of
teen parties involving alco-
hol have been expressed by
both Sheriff Steve Whitlock
of Meriwether County and
Sheriff Donny Turner of
1?oup County.
AFTER REALIZING that
local law enforcement is con-
cerned about the issue, I
decided to look into the mat-
ter a little more. Here is what
I found out.
According to the Center
on Alcohol Marketing and
Youth (CAMY), approxi-
mately 7.2 million young peo-
ple between the ages of 12
and 20 are binge drinkers
(consuming five or more
alcoholic beverages),
increasing more than 50%
over the last eight years.
That number is the equiv-
alent to roughly 4 billion
drinks per year, or about 16%
of the total U.S. alcohol m~r-
ket. ,~
What's worse is that the',
National Highway Traffic
Safety, Administration
(NHTSA) reports close to
60% of traffic fatalities dur-
ing this time of year have
been alcohol-related.
Some may say that the
teenagers are being targeted
by alcohol ads. I'm not so sure
that is the case, but that is a
topic for a column another
day.
The fact is, underage
drinking usually leads to
worse things, like drug use.
According to law enforce-
ment agencies, they have
learned that many young peo-
ple that moved onto other
drugs tried their first illicit
drug while they were intoxi-
cated, whether it was cocaine,
ecstasy, etc.
Manchester Police Chief
A1 Ganus told me that he has
worked several case~ of teen
drinking over the years
where the alcohol was pro-
vided by either an adult that
was supposed to be supervis-
ing the teens during a party
or by a parent of one of the
teenagers.
Adults who provide alco-
hol to teens do not realize that
by doing so they may be con-
tributing to a teen who will
become an alcoholic later in
life, move on to drugs or even
die in a car accident. Most
often, as an adult, we think
that one drink can't be that
bad. We are wrong!
ONE OTHER thing to
remember, is that the adult
whot does provide alcohol
con be arrested and face jail
time for contributing to the
delinquency of a minor.
I wish to extend a plea to
adults and ask that you do not
provide alcohol for teens dur-
ing this, as we all know to be,
a party season for teens. I
would also like to encourage
teenagers not to drink, but if
you do, please don't drink and
drive. You can call a parent
or a friend for a ride home.
It's better to have a parent a
little upset than to die in a car
crash.
I would also like to warn
everyone that law enforce-
ment agencies in the area will
be stepping up highway stops
during this s~ason in an
atte~hpt to stop drivers that
are drinking from being on
our highways. They will also
keep their eyes and ears open
for any parties that might be
serving alcohol to teenagers.
Let's play it safe during
this, the party" season, grad-
uating seniors. After all, you
have just completed one
important phase of your life.
You are now ready to move
on to bigger and better things.
Don't cut it short or never
find out what life has in store
for you by taking a chance on
drinking and driving. Just
say no, to drugs and alcohol.
Show how smart you are.
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Remembering the Heat of the
From Lewis Grizzard's
collection "If Love Were Oil,
I'd Be About a Quart Low',
Written in 1979
I worried about going to
hell a lot in my childhood, and
here again it was my God-
fearing grandmother who
instilled that concern in me.
We burned our garbage out
in a distant field. It was usu-
ally my job to help my grand-
mother carry the family
refuse out to the burning site.
One day, as we stood
together watching the fire
melt away the eggshells and
the cantaloupe rinds and
whatever else had been dis-
carded, she said to me, "Go
put your hands next to the
fire and feel how hot it is."
I did that~ and then she
said, 'The fires in hell will be
a million times hotter. You
remember that the next time
you tell me you didn't eat the
banana pudding when you
did."
She was wise, this woman,
and I was careful after that
always to tell her the truth.
The incident had another last-
ing effect on me, too. To this
day, whenever I see a garbage
truck or smell burning
eggshells or cantaloupe
rinds, I feel the hot breath of
the devil on my neck.
I do not wish to imply my
grandmother was without
tenderness or affection, how-
ever. She simply was the fam-
ily enforcer. But she was also
quick to listen to my prob-
lems, and as quick to praise
me when I was good as she
was to switch the tar out of
me when I was bad.
My grandmother also
enjoyed kissing her grand-
children, which wouldn't
have been all that much of a
problem, had it not been for
her aforementioned taste for
snuff.
Snuff has a pungent
aroma that will burn your
nose and eyes. When one is
kissed by a person who is dip-
ping snuff, it causes the
kissee to sneeze and cough
and want to rtm outside for a
whiff of fresh air. I really
don't know how my grandfa-
ther stood it all those years,
for he must have led the
league in getting snuff-
kissed. I don't recall ever hav-
ing to kiss any other woman
with her mouth full of snuff
besides my grandmother, but
I did later meet a man whose
wife chewed tobacco.
BY THE TIME I began
fifth grade, I had begun to
feel some sense of security
again. I had my mother and
my grandmother and my
grandfather and we all lived
together in that tiny house
near the cemetery, and I had
firmly entrenched myself in
the little community. I was a
Cub Scout, and attended
Methodist Youth Fellowship
on Sunday nights, and rode
bikes, and threw rocks at road
signs with my friends, and
had a good dog, and one of the
Garfields had moved on to
high school in Newnan, which
cut down my odds of being
brutalized on the school
grounds.
My mother, as well, had
settled into the routine of life
in Moreland. We still heard
from my father every now
and then, and once we slipped
away to meet him for a week-
end in Atlanta. Daddy Bun
and Mama Willie were not at
all anxious to see their daugh-
ter take up with the man who
had hurt her so much. My
mother said we were merely
going to visit some of her old
friends.
Occasional visits with my
father were marvelous.
Despite his problems, he
could still laugh a lot and still
find ways to make those
around him do the same. He
still told the stories, still found
an old piano to tear apart occa-
sionally, and, perhaps out of
guilt, he sent me home after
each visit loaded with toys
and gifts.
I HAD TROUBLE keep-
ing up with his whereabouts,
however. He had problems
holding a job. He borrowed
money from friends, he wrote
bad checks, he moved in to
one place, and then he moved
out one night and never left
a forwarding address.
So be it, I said to myself.
He will turn up again sooner
or later, and in the meantime,
I had my mother. She would
never have to go away again,
and we were growing ever
more close. She was honest
with me.
Except for a brie
grossly overestimating
abilities by enrolling me
piano lessons
until my teacher threw
hands up in disgust and
gested I couldn't beat a
bourine because it took
hands - something I
knew from my rhythm
days) my
understand me.
But there
I had failed to
about her. She was
cally a young woman,
the needs and desires
same.
Although she had not yet
officially divorced my father,
she, too, knew there was
hope for reconciliation.
stuck in small-town Georgi~
a first-grade
with a 10-year-old son,
with her parents, she obVi-
ously yearned for compan°
ionship. And when it finally
was offered to her, I did
that
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A $50 Loan, Kindling and 1 ckets to a UGA
Many moons ago I was
chief financial officer of
Manchester Veneer
Company, w.here~ it was my
respons~ility to take care of
the company's financial
needs.
Such a situation arose
back in the middle sixties
where I needed $10,000 to buy
a tract of timber from Noel
Haskins of Great Southern
Paper Company.
Our local policy back in
those days was to rotate our
business with the two com-
mercial banks in Manchester
at that time. That is how I hap-
pened to be uptown present-
ing my case to the late, great
Claude Bray, Sr.
As we discussed collater-
al for the loan, Mr. Bray told
me of a "bad loan" he had
made years ago. He did not
mention any names, but it was
evident the experience was
still deep in his memory.
It seems back in the early
history of the bank, Claude
St. not only looked after reg-
ular banking business, but
during the winter it was his
duty to arrive early to build
a fire in the pot bellied stove
before Eloise Howard and
Martha Ely reported to work.
This particular morning
it was damp and cold and
Claude could not get the fire
going.
A potential customer
waiting to see the banker,
apparently restless and tired
of waiting, said, "Mr. Bray,
I've got the very thing out in
my truck to start that fire."
This man went to his truck
and returned with a big bun-
dle of kindling. Soon the pot
bellied stove was red hot.
NATURALLY, Mr. Bray
offered to pay for the kin-
dling, but the potential cus-
tomer would except no pay-
ment, and told Mr. Bray, "You
can do a little favor with a
fifty dollar loan to buy spring
planting seed."
This was about all the
information he gave me,
other than the bank was
forced to charge off the loan.
Bryant
"...Everybody in
Bulldog-land was
happy, including
Claude Bray, St."
I was relieved when he hand-
ed me loan papers to sign.
LATER THAT fall, we
saw Claude and Fay at the
high school football game. He
told me something had come
up and he needed two more
tickets to the Georgia-
Alabama football game
Athens the next day. It just
so happened our girls had just
told me they did not want
go to the game, that left
with two tickets.
After the game,
came by to pick uI
ets. He insisted he pay me,
but
pany tickets and not for
WH_EN HE
me a final time
mone~
him straight in the eye
said, "Mr. Bray,
these tickets as a bundle
kindling."
You could tell I
touched a tender spot
Claude's past, but we
laughed, but I'm not sure
reminder was funny to him.
All's well that ends
Georgia beat Alabama
next day, 21-0 and
in Bulldog-land was happy,
including Claude Bray, St.
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the
Hogansville Herald
• READY FOR GOLF - "The invitational golf tour-
nament to be held at the Hogansville Golf Club links
next Sunday is going to draw a good number of play-
era from small towns as well as a big town."
• CREATURE COMFORTS - The May 13, 1954
Hogansville Herald carried Presentments from the
'Troup County Grand Jury. On the subject of the
Hogansville City Jail, the Grand Jury suggested better
heating and ventilation, and "also recommend addi-
tional toilets be installed immediately."
• MODERN MARVELS- The dawn of the riding
mower: a large ad for Western Auto touted the won-"
ders of the power lawn mower "...that pulls itself as it
cuts your grass...or you can have one that you can ride
as you cut. A woman or a small boy can use these fine
mowers without getting tired." The ad showed nine-
year-old Pepper Amold apparently having a good time
while he cut a two-acre lawn in less than two hours."
• CINEMA TIME- The Royal Theatre advertised a
wide assortment of movies including "99 River Street,"
"Combat Squad," "The Bandit of Sherwood Forest,"
"The Bigamist," and the ever-provocative "She Couldn't
Say No!"
-CARS OF THE PAST - Hines Motor Company
offered a 1951 Studebaker for $495, a 1941 Chevrolet
Tudor for $75 and a 1947 Hudson for $2.
*WANT AD WONDERS - "Lost or stolen: Brown
terrier named Doodle, belonging to two-year-old child
who is crying for her dog."