Opinions & Ideas
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THE HOGANSVILLE HOME NEWS
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Gaining Weight
Gets Too Easy
My, my how much things
can change in a year. The
other day'I went shopping for
a new pair of jeans and was
shocked when I found out that
a 40 waist was a little tight.
In about a year I've gone from
wearing a 34 waist to a 40. At
this rate I'm gonna have to
start wearing a wide load sign.
It's unbelievable! I feel as
though I'm pulling the wide
load and the road behind it as
well.
Really and truly it's not
the additional weight that
bothers me. It's my health that
worries me a little bit.
It's funny, but this time
last year the last thing on my
mind was losing weight. I've
never been over weight. I've
always been a "good size." No
more, however. Today, chil-
dren use my belly for a
umbrella when it's raining.
I remember standing in
church one morning and a lit-
tle girl pointing toward me
and saying, "Look Mama.
That man's tie lies flat. It does-
n't bow out like the other
men's does." Her mother was
a little embarrassed, but I
knew exactly what the girl
meant. As we men get older,
gur beUie get bigger. Of
course, we try and convince
ourselves it's just an age
thing. We don't want to admit
that we're just lazier and exer-
cise less. Unfortunately for
me, it's not just age that has
caught up to me.
On November 1, 2000, I
decided to quit smoking. I did
it to help improve my health,
but that's a story for another
day.
Anyway, after I quit smok-
ing I really started putting on
weight. Of course many
things have changed for me
over the past two years that
have contributed to my
weight problem.
First of all, I used to get
lots of exercise. I spent a great
deal of time on the baseball
or football field coaching.
Due to my hours changing at
work, I've given up coaching
and don that exercise. ',,
When I was out pounding,
the streets for news and
advertising, I did an awful lot
of walking. Today, I work in
pagination more and that
means less walking.
Anyway, the bottom line
is I don't exercise like I
should. I've thought several
times about joining a gym to
help me out, the only problem
is the one near my office
doesn't'provide a shower and
there is no way I'm going to.
the gym and not shower"
before returning to work. So,
the lack of exercise has great-
ly added to my weight prob-.
lem.
The second problem I
don't understand. I've gotten
more health conscious during
the past year and try to eat
more soup and salad. I've also
noticed that since I've gotten
older, I also don't eat as much
as I used to. Unfortunately
when the age thing kicks in,
you don't have to eat as much
to gain weight.
My Mom used to say,
"Always eat sensibly because
you are what you eat." I guess
she was right cause a cow has
nothing on me and I'm the best
customer of all the local ham-
burger joints. Heck, all the
owners know me by name.
The third problem I have
is Coke. I love Coke and drink
between four and six every
day. I don drink much water
and that is also a problem. The
Cokes not only has con.
tributed to my weight prob-
lena, but I've also found out it
is not healthy to drink that
much Coke.
Quitting smoking was one
of the hardest things I've ever
done. The only reason I was
able to do it was with sheer
determination and lots of will
power. So, I've got to be deter-
mined if I want to take off this
weight. I've decided though,
if I can quit smoking I can
surly cut back on some of my
food intake. I'm going to find
a way to exercise, even if I
have to join the health club
and use baby wipes to fresh-
en up.
I've always weighed
between 160 and 170 pounds.
Now, I'm about a half pound
below 200 and I can't stand it.
I've always been able to see
my" toes. I've said if I got to
the point that I couldn't see
my toes it was time to lose
weight. Right now I would set-
to just be able to see the
d I'm walking on.
' "4mow there are lots of
readers out there who can
probably give me a few tips
or some advice on how to get
my '"de flat again." If you have
any tips or guaranteed diets,
write me at this newspaper
or E-mail me at
Jkuykendall@sm-pub.com
and share them with me. I'm
tired of looking and feeling
like I swallowed an entire
watermelon patch.
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Parents andAll Those Guilt Tri
We all go back a long way,
and quite naturally we begin
telling our war stories, the
ones that inevitably begin
with "I'll never forget the
time..."
We don't see each other
that often anymore, and we
haven't seen each other's par-
ents in years, and there is the
southern custom of asking
about one's parents.
It goes, "How's your
mama and 'em (and them)?"
-- which translates into, "In
what condition are your
mother and your other first
of kin?"
We took turns talking
about our parents. "My moth-
er puts terrible guilt trips on
me," somebody said. "I'll call
and tell her I'm on my way
shopping, and she'll say, 'I
wish I had the money to go
shopping."'
"Mine does the same
thing," said somebody else.'I
won a trip to Las Vegas from
my company and I called my
mother and told her about it.
"She said, 'I guess that
means you won't be coming
to see me in a long time.'
"I said, 'Mama, it's just for
a week.' She said, 'I may not
be here another week.'
"She's in perfect health,
but I called every day from
Vegas just to make sure she
hadn't contracted some sort
of terrible disease."
I SAID MY mother still
worries about whether or not
I'm wearing clean underwear
because I might be in a Teck
and the doctors would see my
dirty undershorts.
"My mother does that,
too," somebody else spoke up,
"but it all means they really
love us."
It does. It's funny how our
attitudes change about our
parents as we get older and
they get older.
These people were our
enemies when we were chil-
dren.
They were the ones who
made us eat our vegetables,
made us go to bed earlier than
we wanted to, fussed over our
grades, lectured us and
wouldn't allow us out of the
house with dirty underwear.
But you forget all that,
and you would miss the guilt
trips if your folks weren't
around to send you on them.
"TELL THEM ABOUT
your dad and the biscuits,"
one friend asked another.
"God, it still makes me
cry," she began.
"Every morning when I
go to work, I go right by my
father's house. And every
morning -- I've been doing
this for years-- I stop by and
drink coffee with him and he
makes biscuits for me
because he doesn't want me
"But you forget
all that, and you
would miss the guilt
trips if your folks
weren't around to
send you on them."
going to work on an empty
stomach.
"One day I overslept, and
I knew I wouldn't be able to
stop by. He said 'You won't?'
I could hear the disappoint-
ment in his voice, but I said
'Daddy, I'll stop by tomorrow
morning, so don't worry
about it.'
"So I get in the car and I
start driving to work. As soon
as I rounded the corner to
drive past the house, I saw
this figure standing out in the
cold and rain with a sack in
his hand.
"It was Daddy. He was out
there waiting for me so I
would still have my
Everybody in the
was in tears when she
ished.
'Tis the season to
thankful. Thanks for
love, the purest love of all.
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Airlines Should Turn Down
Some newspaper colum-
nists and television talk show
folks are beginning to ques-
tion why our elected repre-
sentatives voted so quickly
to give $15 billion of taxpay-
ers' money to the airline
industry as a bailout as a
result o£ the plane crashes on
September 11. They say that
maybe the House and Senate
acted out of panic and exhaus-
tion.
For the record, New
York's two senators, Charles
E. Schumer and Hillary
Clinton, spoke in favor of the
bill that was sponsored by
Rep. James L. Oberstar of
Minnesota and Rep. Don
Young of Alaska in the House.
The top Senate promoter was
John McCain of Arizona.
It is interesting to note
that the two House members
promoting the bill received
the most campaign money
from the airlines this past
election. It has been report-
ed that Oberstar received
$105,000 and Young $76,350
in donations, while McCain,
a member of the Commerce
Committee who oversees the
airlines, received a $178,295
campaign donation from the
air transport industry.
Columnist Douglas
Turner wrote that, "The air-
line bill won sweeping majori-
ties from rank and file mem-
bers who were confused, or
just plain pooped out, or undu-
ly influenced by campaign
money." He could well be
right.
The $15 billion gift, which
should have been govern-
ment guaranteed loans with
restrictions to say the least,
was not the thing to do. How
about the companies in The
Trade Center that lost most
all employees? How about the
businesses in New York that
will suffer great losses in
sales due to the devastation?
How about the insurance
companies that will pay out
billions of dollars in claims?
And we could go on and on.
Bottom line is the airlines
were catered to while others
were left out.
As has been pointed out,
the bill required no sacrifices
from airline executives who
make millions of dollars per
year. Nor did it provide for
any income assistance or
medical insurance for thou-
sands of industry workers
who are losing their jobs.
In addition, airlines are
being permitted to make
service cuts and layoffs that
would never be allowed by
the government or the unions
"Bottom line is
the airlines were
catered to wMle
others were left
OUt."
under ordinary circum-
stances.
Turner wrote that there
is no reason to give the air-
lines money. "Wall Street is
flush with cash to lend. All
that is needed is the govern-
ment guarantee to make them
credit worthy. That lorrow-
ing would have given New
York City's financial markets
a desperately needed shot in
the arm," he said.
Reports in the media
late say that ah
to 80-85 percent of its
You and I
major airlines are
ly strong enough to
the storm of decreased
travel for a time.
not, then they surefire
to face
personal earning:
also stressed the ma
of the airline layoffs.
or maybe most, of the
workers will receive
no benefits from
That brings about
question. If
ers will not share in the
(taxpayer) money given
airlines, then we must
pose the funds will
profit building for the
utives and stockholders.
If you get right down
the nitty-gritty, what the
lines should do,
to maintain their
and public trust, is to
accept the free money.
Uncle Sam we thank
no thank you. We are
to be Americans and we
struggle through this
time just like the
brothers and sisters.
Heed the Desire for Our
This past summer on the
baseball diamond, now this
fall on the gridiron, the youth
of our town play sports. While
these young people play their
little hearts out, seated in the
stands are morns, dads,
grandparents, aunts and
uncles. These family mem-
bers cheer their best for their
child to hit, catch, run and
score. It is natural, right, and
good to cheer these young
athletes on. As we cheer for
these boys and girls to excel
in sports, how many are given
at least the same amount of
support to excel in spiritual
things?
Every parent has a desire
for their children. Parents
want them to be good stu-
dents, goqd athletes, good cit-
izens, and generally good
young people. How many
desire for their children to be
good Christians, and church
members? Above all that is
desired for our children, we
should desire that God would
bless them. Judges 13:24 says,
"And the woman bare a son,
and called his name Samson:
and the child grew, and the
Lord blessed him." As
Samson grew, the Lord
blessed him. That should be
the desire for alIour children.
Our children need love, care,
respect, discipline, good role
models, and more than they
need anything, is for God to
bless them.
Too many times parents
as well as children get caught
up in the things of this world.
Some feel their greatest need
is to wear the latest fashions,
be in the most popular crowd,
or excel in their favorite
sport. While no one wants to
be looked upon as a "square,"
be rejected, or not perform
well on the athletic field,
these are not the most impor-
tant things in a child's life. In
a world of drug pushers and
dealers, perverts and mur-
derers, the only thing that will
help our children is God.
We all must admit that
when it comes to raising chil-
dren, the task is a difficult
one. it seems there are
no clear cut answers, there is
a place we can turn so that
our children may grow up
with the blessings of God on
them. We read in Judges 13
where Samson's father
prayed in relation to raising
Samson, "How shall we order
the child, and how shall we
do unto him?" The Lord in
Heaven above wants to bless
our children and give us the
guidance on how to raise
them. May we seek the Lord's
wisdom and help so that our
children may grow up enjoy-
ing the blessings of God.
Several years ago while
pastoring in South Pittsburg,
Tennessee, we were visiting
for our bus route. We went to
a home where a nine year old
girl lived that had been rid-
ing. After speaking about
generalities with the mom,
we inquired as to whether her
daughter was coming to
answer she gave will
er be implanted
ly didn't know because
daughter wasn't home.
mother went on to say
was not going to "force
would let her make her
mind up. Parents
particular, Ephesians 6:4
home is our responsibility,
are in charge and we
seeto
brought up
of the gospel Our young
pie today oftentimes
beating. They get blamed I
this or that
why they are
We as parents
ern our children's liveS
they are protected
evil, warned about the
gers, and instructed in
right. God has
derful heritage in our
dren. He has entrusted
our care precious lives
need the prope.r
May we as parents be
stewards of that
has blessed us with.